You should not be tensed in the time of tension! :)

These were the words that once saved me off my badly missed deadline.. None other than by my Mentor..

They not only saved me at that time.. but also.. in my one of the not very good days.. wont call them bad.. coz I din allow them to be so bad on me..

Just 2 days to go.. and my mom-in-law has to be operated for her gallstone removal.. as she was getting severe gallstone attacks since couple of weeks.. and there I go partially unconscious.. as the Sinusitis banged its powerful stroke again on me.. nothing new.. it happens once a while.. but at this time.. no ways.. I din have time for that.. and my very sweet dr.. wanted me to be admitted as it seemed to be very high intesity.. How could I.. my family needed me so much.. and there these words played magic on me.. i insisted taking high dose medications.. so that i am good for one week.. and let it go smooth..

The match was goin gud.. my mom got operated successfully and she was released from icu.. came back to our room there. Just thanking good God to be this kind to me.. Me just trying around to transduce the so serious atmosphere to frivolous.. and one more wicket goes down.. and this time its my sweet dear hubby.. who gets infected only by viral everytime and that too once a while.. who knew this while was one to have it..

But again.. there was no place for tension.. just be your usual self and things wud be alright.. as they ever were.. it took a while to come out of all this.. but now this lies with me as an adept experience.. as it was something i could deal diplomatically.. by just seeing it as not a part of problem... but as a part of solution.. 

So.. You should not be tensed in the time of tension! :)

..Thank You Sir... for sharing this wonderful view with me..

Elixir for Life…

Exercising restraint requires a higher form of intelligence. Indulgence requires neither skill nor intellect. Affluence has given man the opportunity to indulge like never. Austerity is facing extinction; patience & contentment are no longer virtues but are relegated to mere words.

All catastrophes like global warming, nuclear threat and poverty are merely a reflection of our ever-increasing inclination for indulgence.

Behavior that rises above the primitive reflexes forms the essence of culture and sophistication. All religions have a set of behavioral restrictions like fasting, celibacy and observing silence. These restrictions help the individual increase his will power, temperance, self control and discipline.

Be Poor in Possessions,
But Rich in Spirit

A man is poor not from materialistic possessions; he is really poor if he is devoid of knowledge, righteousness, honesty and charity. Detachment from worldly things can make one look poor in the material sense but such people exhibit richness in character and remain in equilibrium. Such persons deserve to be called “KARMAYOGI” as defined in the sacred book The Bhagvad Gita.

Kabir has reflected similar ideology as all worldly riches are mere dust compared to contentment of mind.

Go-Dhan, Gajh-Dhan, Baji-Dhan aur rattan-dhan khaan
Jab Aawe Santosh-Dhan, Sab-dhan dhuri saman..

But, often people go into depression and feel unhappy without realizing that circumstances and material things do not matter.

Contentment brings peace and satisfaction to one’s soul leading one to believe in the grace of God.

He leads a life of happiness and peace who finds the treasure of contentment.

Happy Birthday Shona..

Until you, I never knew

the promises that new dawn holds

Until you, I neever knew
the dreams that each night brings

Until you, I never knew
that my world could be so beautiful,
so full of Love...


You mean so much to me.

When something special happens,
I can't wait
to share it with you,
and somehow
you make even the good times better.


When I'm down,
you're there for me,
and you always
seem to know what I need.


When we are apart,
things don't seem quite right
until I feel you close to me again.

Before we met I never imagined
I could find someone like you-
Now I can't imagine my life without you.!

Happy Birthday Shona.. !
You have made my life worthwhile..
May God Bless me.. to have U forever..

With all my love!